Is there really a difference between being “nice” and being truly kind? In this article, Jon Nicol shares the stark contrast between coddling a talented-but-absent musician versus lovingly confronting another player’s performance issues. One approach led to endless frustration and missed opportunities, while the other transformed the music and opened doors to deeper ministry! For people-pleasers like many of us in worship ministry, this honest confession hits close to home—challenging us to consider when our “niceness” actually prevents growth, dishonors the team, and robs us of true leadership opportunities.
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